Talking about secrets, it's supposed to be well kept from other people. It should never be shared. When I said never, it means, never, ever, and ever. But hey, let's be honest here, some people just can't keep secret. They feel the need, the urge to tell it to someone.
Why? Heck, I don't know.
Even I felt that sometimes, haha.
So yeah, when you planned to spill out the secret, choose the person well. Make sure the person is able to keep your secret, the person should make you feel safe after all the secrets was spilled.
That, is my part.
The person, though I don't know why, seems to be ME.
Like, seriously. People been telling me their secrets from I was in high school. I had no idea why, haha. God knows how much dark secrets that is dwell within me.
To be honest, there are time, I think that as a burden. I mean, why do people come to me, like all the time? Don't they have other friend they can spill that secret to? I too, sometimes felt burden by all the secrets and stories I have to keep. It keeps getting heavy, time by time.
But then, I reflect back on myself.
I suddenly remember my life goal--
"To make a change to people's life, even by smiling."
Well, by being their safe box, I am changing them. By listening to the secrets and the stories, I am able to give my advice, guide them to the right path, help them when in need and be a shoulder for them to cry on.
I could help make a change in someone's life, just by listening to them.
A friend of mine, once after she finished spilling her secrets out to me, she said--
"Babe, I don't know why, but it just felt good to share with you my secrets and problems. I didn't do this to other people, just you. Maybe it is the fact that you had once being bad, then repent to the path of Islam and Allah, that make you understand people better. You don't judge people by their stories as you, yourselves had live through them."
Those words, are the main reason why I keep reflecting on myself from time to time, when I am tired of all the bulls people keep telling me.
Anyway, got a problem? Got any secrets to share?
I am here.
I might be a bit late, but I am always here.
